H2o very myopic. Not to turn this into a biblical debate but your interpretation of the bible is extremely off base. Again you take one phrase of the bible and use it to your own end.

You might read Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
It discusses very well the roll of the male warrior in Christain life and how to raise boys into this roll. It will cite verses for you and help to understand the conflicting message borught about by lack of understanding.

But given your anger at God I doubt you would read it or anything that would point to the truth as you have your opinion in spite of reality.