You are doomed, Closer. frown
Someone changed the rules.....or perceived rules. But one thing is for sure....you didn't let her know of your love for fishing in a way that she understood, or you didn't know how much you enjoyed it until after you two got together, but either way, yer screwed.
You will likely spend a lot of time trying to prove me wrong......and I hope you do......but.......it ain't looking good.
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Agendas kill truth.
If it's a crop, plant it.