Well I dont really have the problem when it comes to fishing. My wife likes to fish/camp as much as I do and is usually jealous that I get to fish more than her (she works every other weekend). So when I plan fishing trips with the boys I try to do so on the weekends she works. If she is off and I plan on fishing it is just a given she is going unless she says she is not. Hell the new Intruder we got in June was her idea.
We argue sometimes about differences in our schedules or difference in our plans/priorities. Sometimes I give in (if I feel it is important and I was just being an ass) but sometimes we argue over stupid [censored]. I tell her life is to short to argue over stupid [censored] and that I didnt marry her because I was unhappy being single and then I go do what I had planned. When I return she may still be alittle upset but usually had enough time to realize that the situation was stupid and then we move on.