A person can spend WAY too much of their life "working on it".....example.......how many couples do you know who have had a temporary separation to "work on it" and then reconciled? I know of only a couple of instances......and their relationships today are only "so-so".

Young folks deserve a chance to find out for themselves.....(no sh!t, Sherlock.....like they would listen, anyway smile ) Feel free to piss away as much of your life as you wish.......after all, it's your life.

Good Luck.....seriously
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