Married 25+ years raised 2 great kids,paid off home,had some good years.Fishing was never the issue as balance is the key. It all came down to one person not wanting to address hormonal/mental issues.......Financially, Divorce is brutal but the piece of mind and enormous relief is out of this world.The relationship with kids is so much better now that I wonder why I waited so long. Now I fish and do what I want when I want and I like it!