Why is it that it is never an option for divorcee's to let the father take care of the child for a while till she gets back on her feet?
Aunty speaks of having the "Advantage" of being born a woman, but go to divorce court and suddenly that advantage disappears into the "poor me, I am only a woman" attitude.
Not making excuses for your ex, but if you chose to have custody, you have to take the good with the bad.....

MC

..... And I see *@*#! Cleo is still reading this... He heh!