"Don't let her get a restraining order against you before you get your stuff or say good by to it."

I have had to read a lot of dissolution files because of what I do for a living. I've never been down that road personally but one thing I do see is that the restraining order is often filed with the first summons etc. Generally, it ties up EVERYTHING and you can't do much without a stipulated court order.

Good Luck Sol.