This might just be the weirdest divorce ever. My wife has done a 180 after me telling her she didn't cut it as one of my friends. She says she can deal with not being my husband, but says she can't deal with not being my friend. She has volunteered to go to sexual counseling and also counseling to deal with her control issues, so she can be the kind of friend I like to hang with. She says she doesn't care if I [censored] around while we are in the process of getting divorced. The whole dynamic between her and I has changed for the better. I spent 3 hours with her and the kids in the boat water-skiing yesterday and it was wonderful. She could end up being one of my best friend at this rate. Reconciliation as a married couple has been dismissed by both her and I, as I think we both see that marriage, at least for us was a bad idea.