Your wrong, Stam, I am totally there. So is she, but not every divorce has to end in bitter hatred. We are both just so tired of the work involved in making it work because we are so different and have different interests, and the baggage that has been piling up in this marraige is to cumbersome to move forward with.

As far as messing around, my wife is many things, but she is not a vengeful person. Self-rightous and judgmental, yes, vengeful, no.