I'm not buying that. In actuality ,if he reads between the lines of obvious cheeky humor there is a lot of truth in this. I have seen too many men lose in order to be in relationships,or have kids with women who try to fvck their lives. It's not ok. Don't let anyone convince you that you are nothing short of magnificent without having done anything except be a man on this earth. Fvck that. I won't allow men to do it to me either.