This is meant 100% as a piece of evidence to ponder, what you do with it is entirely up to you...take a look around at all the weird as fuckered up schitt that is going on around you, make a list of all the people and things involved, and try to find the common denominator (s) in all of these drama-fests.

Hint: When you find it/them, you will have correctly identified the problem.

It's kind of amazing how this overwhelmingly obvious step in solving problems is frequently ignored.

Until it is considered, and addressed, the drama will continue unabated.

Fish on...

Todd