No. You are self sabotaging. I know a lot of chicks. I know some really cool single ones. No kids. Dumb,yes .

Look rule number 12,you don't owe them your fuckin resume, all you need to do is set the parameters to meet up,and see if there is chemistry. These daft cvnts want to know all the what have yous up front,but in my world you gotta earn that. Who says I trust you lady? Seriously. Take the heaviness out of this. I wasn't looking for Heidi ,I knew she liked me for like 2 years,but I wasn't into it. Until one day we just kinda clicked. If they ask what you're looking for tell them I know what I don't want,it's up to you to fill in the rest.